Tired of Your Guy Sleeping Around? – What to Do When He Won’t Commit
Are you in a relationship that you are wanting a commitment from? Are you unsure if your boyfriend is ready to commit? How do you get a guy to commit to you and only you? Commitment is a very delicate subject with a man. Women are usually committed to one guy before that guy is committed to just her. However, a guy who loves you should be willing to commit! Here are some tips to help you make that happen.
Most guys are deathly afraid of commitment. At the very word, many of them will leave without a trace. Of course, if this is his reaction, it could very well be a good thing. A guy who is running completely away from the idea of committing probably wasn’t in the relationship for the right reasons. A guy who truly cares about you might have a hard time dealing with the idea, but he shouldn’t run from it altogether.
In reality, you can’t make a guy commit. If he isn’t ready, then he isn’t ready. However, there are some things on your end that you can do to show him that you are ready for a commitment. This could help him to see what your intentions are without pressuring him to do something that he might not be ready for.
First of all, if you have not already slept with him, then don’t. Making him wait for sex won’t make him commit, but it will show him that you are not in it for just a casual fling. By making him wait for sex, he will know that you are interested in a relationship on a much more serious level.
By sleeping with him early on, you are already disclosing to him that you may not be relationship material. Guys have the capability to sleep with anyone who has open arms. However, when it comes to relationships, they tend to date the girls that are a little harder to get.
If you have been in the relationship for a while and feel like it really should be at a committed level, talk to him. Let him know how you are feeling and discuss with him your need for commitment. Don’t be too taken aback if he doesn’t seem very receptive at first. Guys aren’t usually as open with their feelings as women. However, in the end, he will be glad that you told him what you were feeling. This will eliminate confusion.
Under no circumstance should you ever give a guy an ultimatum. This is the fastest way to end the relationship. Instead, just let him know that you don’t want to see other men and you would really like for him to not see any other women. Instead of putting marriage on the table, just let him know that you want it to be just the two of you.
If he still wants to see other women, he may not have feelings as strong as you. This leaves you with three basic options. The first is to accept it and leave the relationship the way it is. The next option is to wait and be patient. Try to have the talk again at a later time. The other option is to call the relationship off and move on. There might be someone out there that is looking for a serious relationship.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.