So, just using words associated with sex definitely does not mean ‘sexy’. Some people have a way with words and some do not. If you do not – spend a bit of time writing something you would love to receive.
‘Sexy’ done tastefully can be successful and make the other person feel ‘sexy’. And just you feeling sexy and texting may be enough to make your good night texts appear attractive. The words might not be explicitly ‘sexy’ to everyone, but you are comfortable with them and you feel good using such language.
Don’t be disappointed if your ‘sexy’ message doesn’t go to plan. You don’t know what mood the other person is in – just be real and don’t take it personally. Be proud you gave it a go and you will be more confident next time.
I think playing it safe is a good way of thinking and if you want to be more daring you will probably be careful about it. Sending a good night text and then thinking: “I wish I had not sent that message” – is not a good feeling.